Studies consistently show that the most effective way to help prevent a child from becoming aggressive and sociopathic is by teaching them to talk about their feelings. Emotional maturity is the ability to Identify, Name, and Manage Emotions WHAT IS EMOTIONAL IMMATURITY? Emotional immaturity is: a limited self-awareness of feelings, understanding of emotions of self and others, that leads […]
WHY DOES BAD STUFF WEIGH MORE THAN GOOD STUFF? LET’S FACE IT. IT SUCKS WHEN SOMEONE HAS BEEN MEAN TO YOU. They can do and say the nicest things, and then annihilate them all with a single word. What gives them the right to disparage your value and worth as a human being? We are […]
The Finnish have a saying: “GOD DID NOT INVENT HURRY.” My Poppa was Finnish, so I joke that I was half Finnish before I was started. However the part of me that isn’t, keeps rushing to get it all done! When my kids were little there was always a long list of things to do […]
October brought a hurricane to Florida one year. . . And there was one in MY LIFE, too. Everything collided. Taxes were due! Kids got sick. Important ‘fun’ social events were scheduled. An irrevocable appointment was approaching. OMG. ALL IN THE SAME WEEK! I was racing to get it all done. Even the fun stuff […]
No way to stay clean… Why is it that you can’t get something clean without getting dirty in the process? The biggest slob I know won’t touch anything filthy or yucky. No way. “EWE! I’m not getting near THAT!” So the result is, that the mess sits. And sits. And sits. But of course, […]
There’s a way to be happy, and YOU’RE IN CHARGE! Enjoy these insightful tips from Ruthie, gleaned from the fields of true life! ASK FOR A FREE BREAKTHROUGH SeSSION
I had a dream about a man with a foot that had been stepped on. The foot had basically died. But he kept dragging it along with him everywhere he went, dismissing it. It hurt badly, but he had ignored it for so long that pretty soon it didn’t seem to bother him anymore. But […]
Struggling to get somewhere in life? Or tried to help somebody who WON’T be helped? No matter how great your advice is, they reply “BUT, this”, or “BUT, that.” Get the details and get unstuck. You are not alone! Laugh, cry and learn as Ruth Elliott-Hilsdon shares her wit, wisdom and bad drawings to get […]
This beautiful song was written by my wonderful husband, Jas Hilsdon. He said this about it: “From early 1976, when I was wandering in a wilderness called Life, in search of a wilderness called Love, I am reminded of this little gem that, after all these years I fully confess is not sung well, but […]
If we want to teach our children peace, we need to demonstrate peace. They learn by your example more than anything else. It’s more caught than taught. So BE the change you wish to see in the world. STOP worrying about what other people are doing that makes you angry and upset. Hold onto YOURSELF. […]
REMOVING BLOCKS TO JOY All the great teachers have told us: “The Kingdom of Heaven is within you.” Imagine finding that within yourself! Joy, Peace and the the fulfillment of all your dreams! But, like a hose that is not attached to the faucet, no water will come through until: 1- It’s connected to the […]
We all need attachment! But we all attach differently! Click on the picture below to find out what type YOU are: A HUGE “THANK YOU” to Marcus Neo for contributing this article! ASK FOR A FREE BREAKTHROUGH SeSSION
What to do about evil? “You cannot create a statue by smashing the marble with a hammer, and you cannot, by force of arms, release the spirit or the soul of man” ~Confucius We can prosecute hate or promote love. Do we have enough energy to do both? I find as a mom I have […]
YOU ARE NOT DOOMED to REPEAT the PAST…When you can WRITE it OUT! Friend – Have you ever had a tough relationship – or in one now – where you were taught to ‘stuff it’, ‘tough it out’, or worse – that it was ‘your fault’? And now the anger, fear and shame keep coming back? YOU […]
The Joy of Self-Knowledge My relationship with my new husband feels like “Dessert” at the end of my life! I asked myself, “Why does it feel so good?” And I realized: I feel free to ENJOY BEING MYSELF around him! And he enjoys being HIMSELF, around me. But for years I didn’t feel free to be myself. […]
Have you fallen in love with a balloon? I did at two years old. I’ll bet you can’t imagine what happened! Click on the picture above to see if you were right… 🙂
WHERE ARE YOU ON THE MAP? One day I tried to use Maps on my phone to get somewhere. But it wouldn’t give me directions until I told it where I was! OMG! That was a perfect analogy to real life! You have to know where you’re coming from to get to where you’re going! […]
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Do you doubt yourself? Think that something might be too hard for you to do? Then answer this: CAN YOU WALK? According to scientific research, if you can walk, or talk, then you’ve already conquered the hardest job you’ll ever be called upon to do! WHAT DOES THAT MEAN FOR YOU? OK. That means that […]
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